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A perfect little perch. My new office in Milwaukee.

Portrait photographers have a favorite month (at least, most of the photographers I know, do) and that month is January. Fall brings as much work as a person can possibly handle and often, then some. We run around, ragged, helping to capture memories and create wonderful Christmas gifts for our clients. Then, when the last package is sent off with tender care, we turn to our own families and our own Christmases and Hanukkahs, again, running around, helping to create memories. Its a fruitful, but exhausting season, followed by the blessed January. Yay for January!

Since we moved our family from San Jose (the San Francisco Bay Area) to Milwaukee, Wisconsin (just north of Chicago, IL) life has been moving at the speed of a runaway train. We have had little time to get much done around our new home and our new offices. So I earmarked my beloved January as the time when I would tackle my loft office.

First step was for Brian to move out. He’s been sharing my office with me since we moved; an arrangement that really doesn’t work for either one of us. Not only is the space a bit crowded with the two of us and, often, at least a few children, but it is also a loud, chaotic space. As a loft above the family kitchen and looking over the living room, it can get pretty noisy up here. This arrangement works great for me, an ADD artist who thrives on chaos and noise (I must be doing at LEAST two things at a time, so filtering the chaos counts as one, work, as two. :-) ) For my more left-brained husband (and also the one who answers the phone) our chaos-loft didn’t work AT ALL. He could barely concentrate with all the action. In addition, we have been struggling to “share” childcare for our last young one, Miss Lydie-bug, who attends preschool for just 2 hours, twice a week. “Sharing” her doesn’t work very well when the parent who is “off-duty” is 2 feet away from the one who is “on-duty”, for obvious reasons. It was time to make a split. I’ll have to blog again soon, and show you Brian’s office. It isn’t as pretty as mine; think furnace room and concrete. :/

So with a couple of trips to my beloved Ikea, some sorting and ingenuity, my multi-purpose, happy, kid-friendly, and creativity inducing “chaos-loft” is complete. I LOVE it!!

 

Here’s the space in full use by the family. My “desk” is actually a conference table, which leaves room for Lydia to play with her toys or color and the older kids can do their homework after school. We’ve already enjoyed a game of Trivial Pursuit up here, and there is a lot of room and even more coziness, making it the perfect game-spot.

Each side of the chimney has a little cozy space that we’ve put to use as Lydia’s hang out zones. Here is her “art corner”, complete with her new easel (a birthday gift from her siblings).

Here you can see how much room the table provides for multiple activities.

Lydia demonstrates her story corner. This girl can “read” as many as 40 books in one sitting; keeping her very busy while Mommy tries to get her work done.

Doncha’ just love this space? I sure do. Lots of storage, which I had little of before, but plenty of open space and room to “breathe”. You can see on the right, we have a low “counter” that Brian built to slide our storage boxes under, and also provides a place for Bug to play Legos and Calico Critters. My view is wonderful as well, with a lovely evergreen just outside the sliding doors, where a pair of cardinals loves to sit and “chat” with one another.

    

Been so long I don’t know where to start, but I gotta’ start somewhere!

Sorry to my faithful blog readers. It would seem that I haven’t been busy enough to have something to blog about, but alas, quite the opposite! The busier I get, the harder I find it to make time to get over here and share. So, lets hope I can squeeze it in at least more than once a month!

I have many great images to share & I promise I will. For now, I will share with you one of my biggest personal accomplishments of the last few years. On New Year’s Day I ran a 10K in Minneapolis, Minnesota in 1:02 and I am now registered to run the San Francisco Half Marathon in July!

In high school, like many, I was an athlete. I played ice hockey, softball & was on the swim team. I loved to be physical; riding bike, running, just getting out there. But like many of us, over time, life got in the way of all that. Without a coach standing over me telling me I’d better go faster or I’d go again, my couch potato days began.

About three months ago I was a the funeral of a sweet older woman from our church in California. I was a bit late, so I slid in the back row. As I sat there, looking at the rows and rows of grey heads, I realized something; there were almost no overweight old people! After that day I began to pay close attention to this phenomenon everywhere I went; the sobering truth seemed to hold true. Now, I am not saying I was “fat” or that I was some morbidly obese person destined for the grave. But I was most definitely not at my best. Instead of feeling thirty-something and strong and healthy I felt tired and old and just a little bit lazy. Not only was I choosing to sit out the more active parts of life, I was choosing to sit in on some very bad eating habits.

Armed with the knowledge that I was almost 30 pounds over my ideal weight, that I have a family history of heart disease and cardiac arrest, that my cholesterol was in the high 300’s when not on my medication and that my little brother and my older sister had successfully trained for and run the Twin Cities Marathon, I knew it was time to get off that couch (I use the term couch to describe a lifestyle cuz in reality I don’t really have much time for sitting on the couch!) and get running. I call it the “no excuse” exercise. All you need is a pair of shoes and you’re all set. No membership fees, no driving to the gym, no schedules.  

Our ten year old son, Isaiah, had recently taken up cross-country, so I thought he would make a great running partner. Ha! First day out my goal was to run one mile. Isaiah had me RUNNING! I made it about 1/4 of a mile before my body about gave out. Isaiah looked back at me, hobbling down the road and said, “WHY are you WALKING?”  I gave him a little education in our body’s response to aging, inactivity and bad eating. From there, he started coaching me to run just a little further each day. “Come on Mom, your gonna’ run all the way to that stop sign WITHOUT STOPPING! You can do it!” I was motivated by the 5K race my sister had challenged me to on New Years Day and I knew I’d better step it up fast, or I was gonna’ just about die running 3.1 miles in the dead of winter.

Soon, my  husband Brian was joining us on our runs and our distances began to stretch a little. I can so vividly remember the day I ran two miles without stopping and I actually felt GOOD! It didn’t take long for me to move the goal line from a 5K to a 10K, or 6.2 miles, and I began to push even further and faster. Not only was I running distances I could not have imagined, just a couple months earlier, but I was feeling like a young 30 year old, strong and in control. I was losing weight, too. By the time the race day came around I had lost over 20 pounds (this most certainly makes running easier; it took a 20 pound weight off my back!)

On race day in Minnesota it was COLD! The mercury read just 7 degrees that morning, with a nice breeze to bring the “feels like” number down below zero. Thankfully, we were prepared. We’d run all 100 of our logged training miles in cold temperatures, some over ice and snow. Making the day all the more exciting, my brother, sister and cousin all joined us and we had quite the team out there! Out of the five of us, I am proud to say, my 10 year old son took the prize. He finished in 51:19! Brian came in right behind him and I could barely believe it when I learned that my time was 1 hour and 2 minutes; 30 seconds per mile faster than I’d ever run and exponentially faster than the day I began.

As high as I felt after running that race, the real reward had come the week before. Brian and I were staying in a lovely little cabin on a lake (frozen of course) in Northern Minnesota. We went out on treks through the 2 feet of fresh snow, we shoveled off the lake to make a ice skating rink & we logged hours of sledding, pulling our little niece Natalie and our own Lydia up in the sled almost every time and . . . none of it was hard. It was amazing to feel so in shape, so strong, so YOUNG again! I am on cloud nine, can you tell??

So the next time you see me you might be surprised. Maybe you won’t recognize me. Or maybe you’ll come see me run in the SF half marathon in July and maybe see me finish strong. :-) But the most important “maybe” for me is that maybe, if God allows, I will be an old lady, a grandmother and great-grandmother, maybe even one of those old ladies who is still running races at 65 . . . But one thing I know I can say for sure, there’s no way I am going back to where I was, the day I couldn’t finish half a mile without heaving on my hands and knees. No, thank you; its nothing but open roads and a healthy life for me from here on out!

A kind of crappy photo taken with Brian’s iPhone just after the race, and just before we all turned into popsicles.

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Day Nineteen. LOVE this kid!

My life & your images: Tonight, the eve of Thanksgiving, I am burning the midnight oil to get all caught up on the pile of Christmas sessions and orders. Its like this every year. Thanksgiving for my family is often no more than a one-day break from round the clock work. Usually, we don’t even do a big dinner, but instead go out or order pizza and spend the day together, just being a family. Tomorrow will be no exception. I love it!! So tonight, while slogging through session after session, editing until I can barely see, I came across this delicious little gem. Mister Mojo here (could he BE any cuter?) is the big brother in this family. While we were shooting them all coloring pictures in the family living room, Mojo came up with this wonderful little interpretation of everyone in the room. good lookin'

Love it! Look closely, especially at the titles. It’s priceless . . . Mom is laughing, Matt (step-dad) is saying “Whoa, man, you are hot!” (I assume Matt was talking to his wife. :-), Macy, the baby of the family, is screaming, he he, I wish I could see what miss Karsen is saying, I’ll have to ask mom, and Mojo, he’s sighing. I guess he doesn’t love this photo stuff, or maybe its Macy’s screaming that’s got him down. I just love this, don’t you? I have the world’s best job, late nights and all. Do you see me in there?? I gotta’ say I am glad I don’t know what he thinks I am saying!

macy how he sees it

Day Eighteen. Picking up where I left off.

My life: Have you ever heard the phrase “If you want something done, ask a busy woman to do it.”? Well, it is true . . . usually. I have a gift, though, of asking myself to do things, crazy things, when I am the most busy. Things like posting every day for a month in the middle of my busiest time of year!! Hello . . . So I have gotten just a bit behind and now I must pick up the ball. I am going to modify my commitment just a bit. I will do my best to post every OTHER day, for the rest of the year. I think I can do that . . . we shall see. :-)

Your images: Up there in my favorite client hall of fame . . . This family is so much fun! Every session with them ends with a gallery of life-infused images that just shout out to you from the walls. Next time I am in San Jose (that’s next week already!!) I need to get over to their house and take a photo of their amazing wall display for you. They have two years worth of fantastic sessions gracing an entire wall in their home. It is spectacular!!downtown milwaukee monkeygirl  yay

Day Seventeen. My lovely assistant’s family & some busy-work.

My life: Well, ’tis the season of chaos and late-nights. As a portrait photographer, I find myself doing about 50% of my year’s work in just two and a half months. It can be exhausting!! But somehow we always come through for our clients and we always get it all done, with time to spare. I may have a sore tush and a hand that is begging for me to step away from the mouse, but it will all be done, none-the-less!!

Your images: This lovely little family belongs to my wonderful assistant, Rachel. This was a sort of “farewell” session for her, as she has moved on to other pursuits and is heading back to school. I miss the companionship of working with her but enjoy our coffee dates when I come to San Jose for shoots. Now, if I could just get her to visit Milwuakee in January, that would be fun!!aaaa glendale tickled whitefish-bay

Day Sixteen. Ten, nine . . . seven?

Your images: Last August I found myself at the HOTTEST photo session of my career. Not THAT kind of hot . . . more like 105 degrees farenhiet hot. The kids took it all in stride, as they are native to San Antonio, and high temperatures are more normal than not. But I found myself melting away and dripping with sweat to boot. Somehow, though, we managed to have a fantastic session which we finished off with these fun images of the kids by their age numeral in a parkinglot. How fun are these? Don’t you think their mom needs to use these for her Christmas card?? :-)

Pro Photography tip: When I saw these cool numbers on the parklot surface I KNEW I had to use them somehow. However, they were in full sun, which is less-than-desirable, not to mention, the kids would be squinting like crazy. My solution? I had Dad pull the suburban up to each space, blocking the sun over just enough of the space to make it work. The kids had their feet under the car (talk about HOT) and I had my tush up against the vehicle and my feet over their legs. I worked!! A kind of make-shift reflector. When you are on-location, you can always find a way, as long as you think outside the box. tennineseven

Day Fifteen. Such a doll! Photo session in Capitola.

 My life: What can I say, today, about my life? Perhaps that it is amazingly full. In some ways, at times, it feels TOO full. Too many responsibilities, too many balls in the air. But then, I think I like it that way. I mean, I can’t honestly remember the last time my life wasn’t FULL. It started with the birth of my first child when I was seventeen and it hasn’t really stopped since. Somehow, whenever it gets too simple, I find a way to add a little chaos into my life to keep it good and crazy. Maybe that means I am not allowed to complain? :-)

Your images: Could this little lady be any cuter??? I don’t think so!! I have been photographing her since she was a tiny 5 day old baby and it has been just a joy to capture her as she’s grown. She has such a sparkle to her . . . just adorable!! This session was part of a Short & Sweet in Capitola. I just love beach sessions. So classic and pure. Yum. sweetnessthe-oceantadastarfish

Day Fourteen. My best friend’s beautiful children.

 My life: I have one of life’s most precious gifts, and one not everyone can claim. I have a best friend that has been my friend since I was three years old. That’s 30 years of sharing life. That’s amazing to me. We have been through all of life’s trials and heartaches, triumphs and joys together. What a precious gift she is to me. Shannon, you rock! And your kids . . . well, I love them as much as I love you. Watching them grow is such a treasure. Aren’t they fantastic? emmaticked blessings wild-man young-lady

Day Eleven. My baby turned 16 today.

I can hardly believe it, even as I type it; my little boy is 16 years old! I remember the day he was born with vivid detail. I was just 17 years old that day; naive, scared, excited, sad, confused, yet so sure of my decision. Months earlier my father and I had a meeting set up with an adoption agency. It was just an informal type meeting with birth mothers, adopted children and waiting families, all sharing their stories. That morning I had this feeling in the pit of my stomach, this feeling that I just couldn’t do it. I knew, I had known all along, that there was no way I would be able to hand over my child. As we walked to the car to leave I told my Dad my decision. He almost cried with relief. He told me he had known all along, too. He said that he could hardly imagine his daughter handing over her child. His child who, over the years brought in baby birds with broken wings, countless stray cats and strange looking dogs no one else would take.. That no matter how hard the circumstances, I would find a way. Somehow I did. That first day, holding my baby in my arms, with his soft, fuzzy blond hair, his perfect little fingers, his beautiful blue eyes, I knew we would be okay. We were going to make it. And even though its been a long, hard journey, it has been a beautiful one. I could not imagine my life any other way. What a blessing he is to me. I love you, Ty!

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Day Four. Milwaukee children’s photographer Up North, in Minnesota.

Oh, how I love these! I’ve been meaning to post these of my dear friend’s children picking blueberries for quite some time. This friend and I met on my first day as a new teacher up in Eveleth, Minnesota, one of the coldest places in the United States. I moved there with young Tyler to take my first real job as a Special Education teacher and Girls Hockey Coach. She was newly engaged and I soon became engaged as well. We were instant friends. We married just two weeks apart and we have been friends through all of the ups and downs of married life and growing families.

 This shoot was a quick, rather impromptu session at a not-so-ideal time of day for photos. Thankfully, with a little maneuvering, you really can make almost any crazy lighting work. Not only was the sun high in the sky, but this entire session took place in the most unlikely location: the ditch across the road from their house. I just love the summery feel, the sweet toe-heads, and the happiness the kids felt while they popped nature’s sweetness into their mouths. Mmmm . . . so yummy! blueberrisadorable  all-gone  delicious

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